3 reasons he hasn't popped the question!

As a lady many times we find ourselves in a difficult and mostly disturbing situation while in a relationship, sometimes this might be because we have been with our significant other for a few months or years and still waiting on that big question which does not seem like it will be asked anyways.
This does not alone put you in a bad head-space  but also make you begin to question the purpose of your relationship. Have you ever being in the situation where you ask yourself what it is you are doing wrongly or what your other friend that got engaged to days or months ago did differently from you? don't think too far. There might just be reasons he is holding back that you are not even aware of.
I will love to give three sincere reasons he still has not popped that magical question.

1▪ Financial constraint 💵💰💵
This alone can not be under-emphasized, many guys tend to shy away from this alot. This alone is the reason most relationships have not gone beyond the level they are to where you want them to be.
A lot of millions are involved when it comes to planning a wedding and yes getting married is every lady's dream since she was a little girl but truth be told a guy would rather invest all his millions in a business or into something that will bring in more money for him than lavishing it on an event or a material object (ring) that can be stolen from you any moment or that can even possibly be misplaced.

2▪ Purpose 🙅‍♀️
This alone explains itself, regarding on how well you know your man, every man secretly admires a lady achieving greatly in life even if he doesn't show it. This is a good way to pass a message across that you know why you are existing and you know what you want from life generally. Sincerely speaking no one wants to wife a lady that is not even useful to herself and all she wants is to just sit back with legs crossed all day waiting on her man's hard or easy earned money.
As a lady you need to stand up for something and be purpose-driven don't just sit at home all day long. Get busy with life and make him miss you atimes, seeing you around him all the time can bore him out and make him go back to the market seeking for another lady to spend casual time with which is why many marriages are failing today. Keep reminding him what it was that he saw in you that made him think really it's time to take the step further. Believe me he wants to have alot to say about you when such discussions come up with his friends.
You don't have to rack your brain on why he still has not taken you to mama, darling it's high time you checked yourself out.

3▪ Personal care and hygiene 💯
As funny as this sounds, you will not believe he has been keeping tabs on you regarding how well you take care of yourself. If you can't take care of yourself as a lady can you even take care of a home, and no! no one is telling you to go domestic here, all this is saying is that you should know how to stay attractive and appealing and it is beyond physical which is where most ladies get it wrong.
You can not come looking all attractive and sexually appealing when a garbage looks better than your surrounding or your room to say. Trust me all those time he comes around to your house un-announced with boxes of chocolate is for no reason other than to see how you really are on the inside, how organized you are and how well you manage your space.
If you can stay neat and organized, manage your space well and look good to round it up this simply shows he can entrust his entire life with you and you will not mis-manage it.

To keep it lively i don't like long posts, stay updated and you will be surprised at all the secrets i will unfold regarding how to make your man pop the question.

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